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~ [[Questions]] 

# How to Reconnect with Doug Loud

**Context**: AI assistant project  
**Issue**: Ghosting for months  
**Priority**: High  

## The Question

What's the best way to reconnect with Doug Loud about his AI assistant project?

## Background

- Doug Loud has an AI assistant project
- I've been ghosting him for months
- This is damaging the relationship
- Need to rebuild trust and deliver value

## Communication Strategy

### Honest Acknowledgment
- Acknowledge the ghosting directly
- Take responsibility for the delay
- Explain the situation without excuses

### Value Delivery
- Offer immediate value
- Provide clear timeline for completion
- Set realistic expectations

### Relationship Rebuilding
- Schedule regular check-ins
- Provide progress updates
- Maintain consistent communication

## Message Template

"Hi Doug, I owe you a sincere apology for the radio silence on your AI assistant project. I got overwhelmed with other priorities and didn't communicate properly. That's on me, and I want to make it right. I can dedicate 1 hour this week to get your project back on track. When would be a good time to connect?"

## Action Plan

1. Send honest acknowledgment message
2. Schedule follow-up call
3. Dedicate 1 hour to fix his project
4. Provide regular updates
5. Deliver completed solution

## Notes

*Add specific communication templates and project details*
